The books or your heart – who do you listen to? by Craig Coman of Chelsea Natural Health, Fulham Rd, SW10
I had a Mum in today with her three month old baby in a very distressed state. This baby was not sleeping very well and vomiting after each feed. As the story unfolded she explained that the baby cried through the night and then apologised for sometimes going and picking him up. Now I know this may be a little controversial in some quarters but I am not sure how we have come to this place. This Mum said “I know I shouldn’t pick him up when he is crying but I can’t help myself”. I asked her why she thought she shouldn’t and she said “well all the books tell you”. I asked her what does every cell in your body tell you?She had to admit that her body was saying pick him up. I then asked what she thought her little boy’s body was saying and she had to admit the same.
Unfortunately today we are now more convinced by a research paper or an expert than we are with motherly or gut instinct. I find it genuinely sad that Mums and other people are under such pressure to tow the party line and follow the current trend. The experts and the research are often proven wrong and I believe that is because we are told that one cap fits all. I saw some research today looking at vitamin E as a cure for cancer. In my experience there have been more so called wonder cures for cancer than almost anything else. Perhaps each cancer is related to that individual and it requires an approach designed for that person and their cancer? I am sure that not every cancer can be caused by the same thing so why then would a standard treatment work? There are many books and experts out there and my suggestion is they are a guide just as with research. Sometimes you have to listen to your heart.


